Healing from Betrayal Starts Here

Support for couples and individuals facing infidelity, sex addiction, or broken trust.

Whether you're reeling from a recent discovery or still carrying old wounds, you're not alone. Rebuilding trust is hard—but it’s possible with the right support.

What You’re Struggling With

You might be cycling between rage and despair. One minute, you're convinced you could never stay. The next, you're trying to forgive.

Whether you're the partner who was betrayed or the one who broke trust, this is a crisis point. But it's also a turning point.

I help couples navigate the complex path of betrayal recovery with honesty, safety, and clarity—without pushing you to stay or go.

You’re likely experiencing some (if not all) of the following:

  • difficulty sleeping or eating

  • racing thoughts

  • panic or dread

  • constant fear of more secrets and an insatiable desire to know more about what happened

  • obsessive thoughts about what you’ve seen, heard, or wonder

  • deep loneliness, disgust, shame

  • desire to be close, talk more, be more intimate

  • pressure to just “move on”

Heather Seguin, California Couples Therapist, welcomes new clients

How I Help Couples Rebuild

With advanced training in sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and couples therapy, I guide both partners through structured healing—restoring safety, honesty, and connection.

Together, we'll:

  • Stop the cycle of blame, withdrawal, or reactivity

  • Reestablish emotional safety after trust has been broken

  • Clarify boundaries, accountability, and next steps

  • Work through the pain—without rushing or minimizing it

  • Begin to rebuild connection at a pace that feels safe

What to Expect

  • Initial stabilization:

    • ending betrayal behaviors, establishing physical & emotional safety

  • Emotion regulation tools:

    • breathing exercises, conflict & communication protocols

  • Guided disclosure (if needed):

    • preparation for the betraying partner & spouse to bring secrets to light and establish a new baseline for a healthier relationship

  • Understanding compulsive sexual behaviors

    • developing awareness of unhealthy coping and replacing with positive, healthy strategies

  • Rebuilding trust & intimacy:

    • defining trust building actions, developing empathy for wounded partner, moving out of shame and into healthy guilt

      **Sessions may be joint or individual, depending on your needs

FAQs

  • Yes—but it takes work, time, and a willingness to face hard truths. Recovery is possible even after deep betrayal, especially with the right support and a commitment to change and heal

  • Both. In early sessions, I often meet with you together. Then I will see each partner individually to support safety and clarity before bringing you back together to work on the relationship.

  • I’m an out-of-network provider, but I can provide documentation for reimbursement. Many clients use HSA/FSA cards.

  • All therapy sessions are held virtually through a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform. This allows you to meet from the privacy of your home, office, or even parked car (I’ve seen it all!).

    • Marriage conflict and communication breakdowns

    • Infidelity, emotional affairs, or porn use

    • Betrayal trauma recovery

    • Sex addiction and compulsive behaviors

    • Christian counseling and faith-related struggles

    • Women carrying the weight of marriage and motherhood

    • Men who feel lost or stuck and want to show up better

    • Shame, avoidance, or past trauma blocking intimacy

  • Yes! Many of my clients are Christians—some are strong in their faith, others are deconstructing, disillusioned, or unsure what they believe. My approach is faith-informed, never forced. I believe Scripture and therapy can go hand-in-hand, and I’ll always respect your questions, values, and spiritual journey.

  • That’s okay, you can still make meaningful progress on your own. Each partner has healing work to do - I often say “there’s his healing, her healing, and our healing.” I work with whomever is in the room.

Ready to Start Moving Forward?

The first step isn’t therapy—it’s just a conversation.