Feeling Stuck in the Same Arguments, Misunderstood, & Striving to Feel Heard?
Online couples therapy for better communication, less conflict, renewed trust—whether you're dealing with everyday strain or the pain of infidelity
Maybe one of these feels familiar
“I can’t get that look on her face out of my head. I don’t know if we can get past what happened.”
“We can’t have a conversation without it turning into a fight…I’m so tired of fighting all the time.”
“I feel like I’m doing this marriage alone. No matter how many times I ask for support, nothing changes.”
“It was 'just porn'—but something in me broke. I feel so shattered and confused. How can I trust him again?
How I Help
As a licensed marriage & family therapist, I specialize in helping couples get unstuck—whether it’s everyday disconnection, unresolved conflict, or the fallout of betrayal.
Together, we'll:
De-escalate the tension and rebuild emotional safety
Improve communication without blame or shutdown
Rebuild trust if there’s been infidelity, lies, or secrecy
Rediscover closeness—even if it’s been gone for years
What Clients Are Saying
“I learned a lot about boundaries and Heather gave me the tools to know how to support and implement them.”
“Heather has this ability to stay curious and nonjudgmental. She had a wonderful way of calling us out in a way that felt safe.”
“She helped me replace old ways of thinking and build healthy behaviors and habits. Therapy gave me new insights and put things into proper perspective.”
“Heather was a fantastic coach to my husband and I when we found ourselves arguing more and more often without resolving issues. Each time it was hurting our relationship further. Heather helped us to see what we were doing or believing that was hurting the other and helped us to find ways back into productive discussions to resolve issues when they arise.”
FAQs
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I’m an out-of-network provider, but I can provide documentation for reimbursement. Many clients use HSA/FSA cards.
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All therapy sessions are held virtually through a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform. This allows you to meet from the privacy of your home, office, or even parked car (I’ve seen it all!).
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Marriage conflict and communication breakdowns
Infidelity, emotional affairs, or porn use
Betrayal trauma recovery
Sex addiction and compulsive behaviors
Christian counseling and faith-related struggles
Women carrying the weight of marriage and motherhood
Men who feel lost or stuck and want to show up better
Shame, avoidance, or past trauma blocking intimacy
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Yes! Many of my clients are Christians—some are strong in their faith, others are deconstructing, disillusioned, or unsure what they believe. My approach is faith-informed, never forced. I believe Scripture and therapy can go hand-in-hand, and I’ll always respect your questions, values, and spiritual journey.
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That’s okay, you can still make meaningful progress on your own. Some couples also alternate weekly sessions until they’re ready to work together.
Ready to Start Moving Forward?
The first step isn’t therapy—it’s just a conversation.